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A faithful and reliable friend is a rather rare phenomenon. Especially in today's world, where everyone wants to find personal benefits. But it happens that a simple friend can be made a better friend by using a little magic. For such cases conspiracies are envisaged, with the help of which a friendly sympathy arises. As a result, it grows into a strong friendship, allowing you to build relationships with others. What else can be achieved using magical plots for friendship, we will tell in this article.
After reading the magic words in a special created environment, you can dramatically change the attitude towards yourself as one and several people at once. As a result - in your life there will be reliable friends, on which you can rely at any time.
All the conspiracies for friendship, with the help of which you can get friends, are divided into three groups. Each of them is represented by specially prepared texts, which can be used in a specific situation.
So, the conspiracies for creating friendly relations can be:
- attracting friends - for people who are alone, have not yet found a good friend;
- supporting the already existing communication - are used after scandals and quarrels to establish and restore friendship between people;
- causing friendly sympathy - to attract new friends and acquaintances in order to choose among them a suitable candidate for the best friend.
Talking to flowers to find a friend
If you want to achieve the location of a particular person who does not seek to be your friend, you can apply this plot. It will help to fix the current situation between you and another person (or several people at once).
To the approval of the victim, as well as friendly sympathy soon showed up on the side of the object of the plot, get:
- bouquet of 12 natural flowers;
- church candle.
Having prepared a bouquet, go to the temple. Buy a candle and put it on the icon called "Taming the Evil Hearts". Say the following words over her, holding flowers in her hands:
"Snakes will not spare anybody, they will sting with their tongues, poison poison, but they will leave me alone, leave alone. Let them love me and they love me in society, let only good talk about me. The Lord our Great will help these words. Help me, Lord, to the servant of God (your name) leniency and blessing have gone. Amen".
Saying three consecutive conspiracy for friendship, leave the bouquet under the icon. Now you can go home. The result should be noticeable within a month. The first signs of the effectiveness of the ritual will be a good attitude of enemies and good communication in society.
To consolidate the effect, you will need to rerun the ritual and read the plot. To carry out again magical actions it will be necessary exactly in a month.
To make up
If you quarreled with a best friend and wish not only to restore relations, but also to restore a strong friendship, conduct this rite. For its organization, prepare:
- 12 candles bought in the church;
- matches;
- refractory saucer.
That the conspiracy was effective, the rite is spent at sunset, in the light of the setting sun for twelve consecutive days. In the evening of the first day light one candle, setting it in a saucer. Say over the flame of the candle such conspiracy words for reconciliation:
"Lord Almighty, help, bless and condescend to the servant of God (your own name)! An angel was coming to the church from the throne. And the Mother of God and the Archangel Michael met him at the gates of the church. They had swords and sabers in their hands, which they drove evil spirits away from the angel. They and all squabbles, quarrels, scandals, and peace in the friendship of the servant of God (his name) and the servant of God (the name of a friend) were returned. So let peace and friendship reign from now on, and peace will settle in their souls. Their friendship will henceforth become strong, will never collapse and will not break under the influence of speeches of vile, views of spiteful. Key. Language. Castle. Amen".
Leave the candle to burn out, and in the following days repeat the same actions. If you manage to reconcile and restore friendship before the 12 candles end, do not interrupt the ritual. Do all the actions now to strengthen the relationship. If you do not make it up with a friend, even when all the candles run out, take the initiative. After apologizing, you thereby establish a friendly relationship and return a friend.
To say the thing of a potential friend
If in society your attention is attracted by one person whose arrangements you have not yet achieved, speak his personal thing. Even if the object was only a few minutes in the hands of the victim, it also fits.
In the evening, take the thing and read over it a conspiracy of friendship:
"Let us make friends, and we will never run up, we will not quarrel, we will not disperse on different sides. Help me, heavenly powers, keep friendship and obstacles prepared by fate to overcome. From now on, let it be the same for ever and ever. Amen. Amen. Amen".
Put the enchanted thing in the furthest corner. It is necessary to safely hide it so that no one finds an object and does not destroy magic.
To find a friend
If a person is completely alone and there is no true friend in his life, one can use this ritual. With its help you can get new friends, buddies and friends. To conduct the ritual you will need:
- a handful of sunflower seeds;
- a wide bowl of metal;
- church candle;
- cut of natural white fabric.
In the evening, sit down at the table. Put the candle on the table, light it. Next, install a bowl and pour the seeds into it. Next, seven consecutive conspiracy to recruit friends:
"How many sunflower seeds are in the bowl, so let my friends be with me. How much I poured this seed into a bowl, so many people will step on my threshold, they will become friends. "
Then shift the seeds one by one from the bowl into the cloth. When all the seeds are on the matter, tie it, so that not a single seed will fall out. Take it and hide this package in a secret place, simultaneously saying:
"How quiet and true you lie, such faithful and good friends of mine are. Amen".
And remember that the rite with the reading of the conspiracy for friendship was effective, spend it with the growing moon. During this period, the heavenly body will deign to new achievements and help you to find new friends and strengthen friendship.
school of politeness :: how to behave :: etiquette
Lesson 1.
TO YOU ALWAYS THERE WAS A LOT OF FRIENDS.
- Never be rude to your comrades. Do not call offensive words. Do not give them nicknames.
- Do not try to hit or push anyone to occupy a place convenient for you (for example, in the game).
- Do not forget to greet all your friends. Even with those of them who are quite small. You can be friends with and with kids, and with big guys, and with boys, and with girls.
- If you are offended by something for your friend, try to quickly forget and forgive him for your offense. Do not get mad!
- If your friend asks you for a toy or a book, do not deny him. Do not be greedy!
- If you yourself took a friend's book or toy, treat these things neatly and do not forget to return them on time (when your friend asked or when you yourself promised).
Always follow these rules, my little friend! And tell them to your friends.
Friendly Aunt Spike.
Lesson 2.
To educate the will and character.
The word "honesty", "honor" is similar to the word "purity". Is not that so, my little friend?
An honest man, we call someone who "did not mess up" himself with pretense, cowardice and lies. An honest man is one who is truthful and bold. He who values friendship. Who respects and loves his family and others, other acquaintances and even strangers.
A man who always tries to behave politely and honestly, over time, develops strong will and a firm character. About this they say:
- This person himself is able to educate himself.
If you, my little friend, also want to cultivate will and character in yourself, here are some tips for you:
- Be disciplined and accurate. Do not waste your time in vagaries and stupid things.
- In the morning, be sure to do exercises to become strong and dexterous. (Suddenly, do you ever need to protect a girl or a weak baby from a badass bully?)
- Behave yourself delicately, kindly with all the familiar and unfamiliar people.
- Always give up your place in transport to people who are older than you. Or that - you see - very tired, sick.
Raised aunt Pig.
Lesson 1.
TO YOU ALWAYS THERE WAS A LOT OF FRIENDS.
Never be rude to your comrades. Do not call offensive words. Do not give them nicknames.
Do not try to hit or push anyone to occupy a place convenient for you (for example, in the game).
Do not forget to greet all your friends. Even with those of them who are quite small. You can be friends with and with kids, and with big guys, and with boys, and with girls.
If you are offended by something for your friend, try to quickly forget and forgive him for your offense. Do not get mad!
If your friend asks you for a toy or a book, do not deny him. Do not be greedy!
If you yourself took a friend's book or toy, treat these things neatly and do not forget to return them on time (when your friend asked or when you yourself promised).
Always follow these rules, my little friend! And tell them to your friends.
Friendly Aunt Spike.
Lesson 2.
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To educate the will and character.
The word "honesty", "honor" is similar to the word "purity". Is not that so, my little friend?
An honest man, we call someone who "did not mess up" himself with pretense, cowardice and lies. An honest man is one who is truthful and bold. He who values friendship. Who respects and loves his family and others, other acquaintances and even strangers.
A man who always tries to behave politely and honestly, over time, develops strong will and a firm character. About this they say:
- This person himself is able to educate himself.
If you, my little friend, also want to cultivate will and character in yourself, here are some tips for you:
^ Be disciplined and accurate. Do not waste your time in vagaries and stupid things.
In the morning, be sure to do exercises to become strong and dexterous. (Suddenly, do you ever need to protect a girl or a weak baby from a badass bully?)
Behave yourself delicately, kindly with all the familiar and unfamiliar people.
Always give up your place in transport to people who are older than you. Or that - you see - very tired, sick.
Never deceive your friends and adults. Lying and pretending are most often cowardly and ill-bred people. Do not be like them!
Honest Aunt Anchor.
Lesson 3.
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FORESTRY LESSONS LESSONS.
Please, remember how a well-bred, polite person is obliged to behave in the forest and teach this to his friends.
A well-bred person does not break branches of trees and bushes, does not tear forest flowers. The grass cover preserves moisture and provides shelter to a huge number of useful insects and small animals.
Do not shoot down unknown to you or even famous poisonous mushrooms. Many of them are a medicine for forest dwellers.
Do not catch and bring into the house forest animals, insects and birds, for them our "entertainment" often ends with illness, anguish and death. These are not toys.
Do not unintentionally or intentionally destroy the nests! Otherwise, the ants will not have time to repair their house before the frost. And they will perish!
And, of course, a polite person who came to rest in the forest or on the meadow will not leave a dump after himself.
Raised aunt Pig.
Lesson 4.
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HOW TO ENTER AT THE TABLE.
Do not put your elbows on the table, only your hands.
Snacks and salads from large dishes are not storing the spoons you eat yourself, but those that are on the dish.
Spoon or fork with food brought to a slightly inclined head, but never lean to the plate.
Chew your food necessarily with closed lips - neither fast nor slow, do not cham and do not talk with your mouth full.
On the plate, put as much as you can eat.
When the meal is finished, place the knife and fork on the plate parallel to each other on the right.
^ ADVICE TO EDOKAM.
This is a fork: Cutlets, rolls, goulash, beef stroganoff, salads, pates, omelettes, rice, pasta, dumplings, vegetable side dishes, potatoes.
This is eaten with a knife and fork: roast, chops, poultry.
This is a spoon: porridge, cottage cheese, soup, mashed potatoes.
Bread is taken by hand, does not bite off the piece, but breaks the pieces and puts them in their mouths.
Cake, cake and other sweets with cream do not need to be taken by hand. They are eaten with a small spoon.
Well, now we need to decide with you
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CHALLENGE FOR THE HOSTER.
Given: oilcloth, tablecloth, napkins, plates (deep and small), cups, glasses, forks, knives, spoons (table, dessert, tea), flowers and vases for flowers.
Required: arrange everything so that it is beautiful, correct, convenient.
Decision:
1. Put an oilcloth on the surface of the table, then a tablecloth.
2. Mentally, at a distance of 1-2 cm from the edge, draw a straight line, on it smoothly place the plates - each against the chair. If the table is for dinner, place it on a small plate deep.
3. The knives are placed to the right of the plates with a blade to them, the forks are on the left with the point pointed upwards. Spoons - soup, dessert - put behind the plates parallel to the edge of the table with handles to the right.
4. For water or juice, place the glasses on the right side of the instruments. Napkins - on plates. Do not forget about spoons, knives, forks for snacks, salads, butter. Flowers in vases will decorate the festive table.
Enjoy, guests are dear!
Lover to have a snack Aunt Pig.
Lesson 5.
^ IMAGES OF GAME.
Rules of the game
1. Observe the rules of the game, do not try to win and get the championship dishonestly.
2. Do not rejoice when others lose.
3. It's a shame when you lose, but do not lose heart and do not get angry either at the winner or on whose fault it may have been defeated.
How and what to play with friends.
1.Heated hide and seek.
The driver, closing his eyes, slowly counts to 10. The rest are hiding, but not too far away. So that the driver can hear their voices. As soon as the driver says loudly: "Ten!", Everyone hiding shouting in response to some polite word, at will:
- Hi!
- Good evening!
- Good luck!
- Thank you!..
And the leader of the voice should find out who was hiding and name who of them is. He is led by the one whom he learned first.
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2. The polite blind man's buff.
A selection is chosen as a guide. His eyes are blindfolded. And he catches the rest of the players running in a not very large room.
The one who leads will be his assistant. He is also blindfolded. Now leading already two. The third, whom they catch, also becomes their assistant. And so on, until all the players are caught. The one who is caught last, leads the next time.
3. Game-competition-1.
Spread on the floor in the hallway or corridor 2-3 newspapers, put 2-3 pairs of shoes (according to the number of participants in the competition). Give each player a clean damp cloth, a shoe brush, a shoe cream of the right color. The winner is the one who will clean the shoes faster and better than others.
4. Game-competition-2.
Prepare a few scraps of fabric and colorful buttons. The number of them must match the number of players, while you can make a "home team" - dad, mom, grandmother, children. The winner is the one who fastens the buttons more quickly, sturdily and correctly.
5. Game-competition-3
Each player receives a knife and 3 potatoes. Who is better and faster potato peeler? Cleaned potatoes do not forget to fry and treat everyone - winners and losers.
Played Aunt Spin.
Lesson 6.
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WE ACCEPT GUESTS.
If you are the master.
Any person who crosses the threshold of your house is a guest, who should be received kindly and cordially.
^ If the guest has come in more than a few minutes, you must offer him to take off his coat. And you must help him hang his coat on the hanger.
Try to get the guest to settle quickly and feel at home. Invite him to sit at the most convenient place.
^ Take the guest with a conversation, let the guest choose the topic for conversation.
Do not leave a guest alone for a long time. And if you briefly have to distract yourself, be sure to apologize to him.
^ If the guest has stayed and is not going to leave, and you have urgent business, you must find a very tactful form, how to let him understand this.
Proverbs and sayings.
^ Do not pity the guest, but lean more thickly.
In a strange house, do not be considerate, but be affable.
Do not be afraid of the guest seated, but be afraid of the guest standing.
At the feet of truth there.
Guests are twice happy: meeting and seeing off.
The owner of the oars - the guests are joyful.
^ The welcome guest does not wait for the call.
Frequent feasts will wipe out the polushki.
The guest often takes the hat - it will not soon go away.
After the guest does not regret.
An uninvited guest is worse than a Tatar.
A hospitable aunt Spivka.
Lesson 7.
WE GO IN THE GUESTS.
If you are a guest
Know that an unexpected visit almost always causes anxiety. Therefore, it is only permissible if absolutely necessary.
If you knocked twice or rang the doorbell and you were not opened, you should not "break" at the door, but calmly leave without checking whether the owners are really not at home.
Being on a visit, it is ugly to estimate an apartment, to make critical remarks.
Do not try, that how much it cost and where bought, do not remove from the shelves jewelry to examine them from all sides.
What should be the gift?
A gift must have a specific purpose. Do not give grandmother videos, a kid - a calculator, a daddy for a rattle, a mother a man's tie, and a grandfather a doll. Such gifts are needed, like a fish umbrella.
The main thing is that the gift brings joy. It is necessary to show that you remember the person, take into account his taste, hobbies. By making a gift, you bring joy to another, and do not brag about all your generosity.
Do not empty your parent wallet, better think up something original - do something, draw.
Presenting a gift is accompanied by kind wishes and a smile.
And the one who receives the gift should remember that "the gift horse does not look in the mouth", that is, one should always express gratitude, even if the gift did not suit the taste.
Lover to stay with my aunt the Pig.
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Lesson 9.
^ RECEIVED PEDESTRIAN.
1. Cross the street by underground passages or on special footpaths.
2. At the same time you need to look at the traffic light. When yellowor red light can not cross the street. And if it's on green light, look to the left ... if there is no moving transport - boldly walk to the middle of the street. Stop there and look to the right. If this time there are no cars, move on ... But still be careful - suddenly there will be a car going to the turn, or "ambulance" with a siren and flasher. For pedestrians at traffic lights there are also signals: "red little man" - wait, "green little man" - Go ahead.
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3. When there is no crossing on the road, you can go through it under two conditions:
- if the road is well visible in both directions,
- if the distance between the pedestrian and the approaching car is not less than the distance between the three lamp posts. (As long as the car passes this distance, you will have time to cross the road.)
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4. The standing tram should be avoided from the front.
(If you go around it from behind, you can get under a counter tram or other transport.)
Take a bus and trolley bus around the back. (If you go around in front, because of them you can not see the cars driving them.)
^ 5. You can not play on the roadway or even on the sidewalk. No football-volleyball, badminton-tennis, no skateboards-rollers and bicycles! Play only in yards, in parks, on boulevards, where there is no threat of meeting with cars.
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6. Outside settlements pedestrians should walk along the roadside or the edge of the roadway to meet the traffic.
In no case can not run out onto the road and in the city, but it is especially important to follow this rule, crossing the highway beyond the city - after all, cars are racing much faster!
^ 7. When crossing the railway line, be especially careful! Although the train is easier to see from afar than the car, but it often goes faster. And the driver quickly brakes, it's almost impossible to stop the huge train.
8. Winter is approaching, it's getting dark early. ^
If you do not have a light reflector yet, ask your father or mother to buy it and attach it to your jacket or school backpack.
Then, lit by the lights of a passing car, even in the dark you will be well visible.
Aunt Pig-policeman.
Lesson 10.
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EXERCISES FOR GOOD WIZARD.
I think that you, my friend, of course, are not afraid of evil wizards. Why be afraid of them, when every girl and every boy knows that fairy tales end in a kind way? And by the way, wizards live not only in fairy tales!
Every person who is kind, who honestly, diligently, lovingly performs his work, just a little wizard. Honest fairy!
Is it not magic - in a vacant lot, in a bare place in a few months to build a beautiful house?
And to cure a sick person? Or ... Grow a garden? And come up with a make-and-assemble truck? And to bake a sweet-tasty cake?
Yes-a ... In the white world around us, such naughty wizards are not so little!
Of course, you really want to learn a lot from your familiar wizards. You do not know how to do wonders yourself. However ... I think I'm wrong. Although you are quite a few years old, on the ground there are not so many cases for you. Everything depends on your desires and efforts. And I, of course, believe that you will not be lazy and try every day to make at least one good miracle.
Exercises for good wizards.
Exercise 1.
Ask your mother or grandmother to give you a small basin. Pour a little warm water into it. Find a rag, which my mother usually washes the floor. Put it in a basin of water. Then gently squeeze it. And carefully rub the damp cloth in the kitchen floor. At the same time, the rag must be dipped several times in water and wrung out. Do not leave the corners and the part of the floor under the table and chairs unreadable. Having finished this business, please do not forget to squeeze and hang a dry rag.
Exercise 2.
Together with your father or elder brother (you can with your sister or your mother), collect dry and thick enough rods in the forest. Make them sticks of approximately the same length. From these sticks make a hedge around the familiar anthill - now it will be clearly visible to all passers-by. And someone accidentally will not step on it and destroy the ant tower.
Exercise 3.
Help your younger brother or sister to dress, get dressed, take a walk with him, feed the porridge.
Exercise 4.
Smasteri for birds and protein feeders for the winter. And do not forget to bring and pour food in them.
Kind sorceress Aunt Pig.
Lesson 11.
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SAFETY RULES ON ICE.
Always pay attention to the color of ice. If greenish and bluish - it means that its thickness is about 10-12 cm. It will stand it all. If the ice is matte-pale, with yellowness, then it is very fragile. You can not walk here, you can fail.
Remember that it is dangerous to move on ice during a thaw or when snow drifts bring it.
If you cross the river on the ice, it is necessary, but there is not a beaten track on it, for safety, check the ice - first, and hit it with a stick. If there is water after the impact - come back, this place must be bypassed.
If all the same the ice crackled, fell under your feet and you're in the polynyas? Do not give in to panic, do not wipe your hands. On the ice you have to get out in the direction from where you came from, cautiously creep out, spread your arms wide, not leaning. Do not try to stand on the edge of the ice. Ride away from the polynyas and just on the shore get up on your feet. Run faster to get warm and quickly get into a warm place.
And if you saw a man who fell through the ice? Scream louder, call for help. You can not approach the polynya, just crawl, putting something like a board or skis under you. In no case do not give the sinking hand - together prove to be in the water. We must give him a board, a ski pole, a rope. You can use a long scarf or outer clothing - a jacket or coat.
A man caught in a wormwood, freezes, his clothes get wet and pulls to the bottom, he quickly loses strength. Therefore, the rescuer must act, though cautiously, but boldly and resolutely.
(According to the book by I. Ovchinnikov "School of Security")
Careful Aunt Anchovy.
Lesson 12.
RULE OF FRIENDSHIP.
Help comrade: if you know how to do something, teach him too; If the friend got into trouble, help him, than you can.
Share with your friends: if you have interesting toys, books, share with other guys, with those who do not. Play and work with friends so that you do not take all the best.
Stop comrade if he does something bad. If a friend is not right about something, tell him about it.
Do not quarrel with friends; try to work and play with them amicably, do not argue over trifles; Do not be conceited, if you do something well; do not envy comrades - we should rejoice at their successes; if you have done badly, do not hesitate to admit it and correct yourself.
Be able to accept help, advice and comments from other guys.
Friendly Aunt Spinka
Lesson 13.
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HOLIDAY OF PAINTS.
Try to create-draw a festive city yourself.
Let each draw a house, a tower or a palace. Carefully cut out these drawings and paste them on one of the largest sheets of paper ... That's how you get the city.
Let each draw a tree or a flower. Cut them out and paste them on the same sheet. And in your fairy-tale city, according to your desire, trees and flowers will grow.
Now draw all sorts of different animals and birds, cut them out and paste them there. So in your fairy-tale city there will appear inhabitants-inhabitants, as in the most real, the most fairy tale.
And you can draw a big flower - for example, a flower-semicolour. Color petals, on each petal from the back side to write kind words and wishes. And then give it to Mom.
Artist a sorceress aunt Pig.
Lesson 14.
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WELCOME RULES.
Just in case, I'll remind you that the younger ones greet the elders. Although an educated person does not wait to be greeted with him, but does it himself, do not let yourself be ahead of yourself.
If those with whom you want to say hello are far from you - on the other end of the hall, for example - do not press your hands and do not stun everyone with your cries. Having met your friends, greet them with a nod. It would be enough.
Noisy and stormy exclamations like "whom do I see," "at last", "where did you disappear", you can not name greetings.
If the same person meets you more than once a day, greet him every time, but in different forms - with a nod of the head, a smile, a slight wave of the hand, a wish for a pleasant appetite (during lunch).
Raised aunt Pig
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Lesson 16.
^ How polite to talk on the phone.
First of all, you must be polite and, if possible, brief. On the phone it's better to talk, but you can talk when you meet.
Hearing the call, hurry to pick up the phone, and saying "Hello", do not forget to answer the greeting.
If you were asked to invite someone from the house to the phone, your curiosity is "who is this?", "And why do you need it?" - it will be unceremonious. Everything that he considers necessary, the caller will say himself. But to ask whether it is possible to convey anything in the case when the person to whom they call is not at home, it will be appropriate, and kindly from your side.
If you are busy, say, apologizing that you will call back. But just do not forget to do it!
Wrong number - answer politely, do not be angry, because with you it happened.
Do not dial the phone number from memory, if you are not sure that you remember it properly. And if you made a mistake, do not ask in any way what happened and what is the phone number. Saying: "Forgive me, I was mistaken," put the phone down.
Starting the conversation, welcome and introduce yourself.
You will do the right thing, if you ask if you have distracted your affairs from your call and can now talk with you.
A telephone conversation is in some way an uninvited visit. It may be that your call for someone is not the first and not the last. And therefore do not forget: educated people never abuse telephone conversations and call only when necessary.
Lesson 17.
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THE COZY INTERVIEWER.
Be benevolent and respectful of those with whom you speak, and therefore remember that expressions such as "it is useless to talk with you," "how can you not understand?", "I have never met such stupid people," "you do not understand this "," Of course, you do not know "a polite person does not use.
Remember that your listener also has something to say. Give him the opportunity to join the conversation.
Be attentive to the interlocutor. Be able to notice that he is in a hurry, before he tells you about it. In time, change the subject of the conversation, if it is not interesting or unpleasant to the listener.
Do not discuss the behavior, the manner of dressing, the causes of other people - you will become famous as a "gossip" ("gossip").
Do not be talkative. A long conversation is tiring for the listener.
Do not use words in the conversation, the meaning of which is not entirely clear to you, as well as those whose values your interlocutor may not know.
Do not gesticulate (do not swing your arms). If you express yourself accurately and clearly, you will be understood without difficulty.
Pleasant companion Aunt Pig.
Lesson 18.
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THE CURRENT HEARINGER.
If you are approached, and you are busy at the time, leave all your affairs and look at the interlocutor, expressing your readiness to participate in the conversation.
Listen carefully and to the end. Do not interrupt. Do not tell the speaker the words, do not finish phrases for him, do not make comments in the course of the conversation. Bear in mind that a person should just talk out sometimes.
If several people participate in your conversation, do not react to speech, which is not addressed to you.
In your presence they allowed tactlessness, spoke sharply and irritably. Try to immediately interrupt the conversation, but do it without a call.
Mock or call others? Translate the conversation to other topics.
Try to listen to the interlocutor carefully and sympathetically, so that he has a feeling that you are talking to him.
Polite listener Aunt Pig.
Lesson 19.
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RULES OF COMMUNICATION.
When you leave your home (small world) in a big world (to the street, to a cultural institution ...), where many people, you must follow certain rules of communication.
It is impossible, for example, to allow the occurrence of the following situations:
- an elderly person is standing in a tram, struggling to keep his balance, and young people are sitting quietly next to him, who does not even think of giving way to him;
- the visitor of the restaurant, the cafe, licking out the gravy from the knife;
- Being in a society, you, forgetting yourself, picking a match in your teeth;
- you tire your guests with a commentary on the TV program, not caring at all whether they are interested in it;
- You are indifferently watching how your mother, bending under the weight of bags, returns home.
In doing so, you show disrespect to others and in vain you count on their respect for yourself. The one who thinks that rules of a good tone are necessary only when there are beautiful clothes on him and he came to visit or to a concert is mistaken, and in everyday life they are not needed they can be removed together with a dress and left on a hanger for the time being, . To be tactful, attentive and pleasant in communication should not only be with strangers, it is necessary first of all at home, in the family circle, in school.
Aunt Swine.
Lesson 20.
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THE RULES OF BEHAVIOR IN PUBLIC TRANSPORT.
When entering the city transport, do not push all elbows, pass women, elderly people and girls (if you are a boy) forward, help them to rise in the salon.
Do not stop at the entrance (if you do not leave at the next stop), and go to the middle of the salon.
The educated person gives way to older people, toddlers, women with heavy bags.
In public transport do not shake snow or raindrops from clothes, do not eat, do not go in with ice cream in their hands and, of course, do not smoke.
In the salon do not comb their hair, do not clean their nails, do not pick at the nose, teeth, ears ...
The newspaper is read in folded form, without unfolding; Do not look in the book or the newspaper of the neighbor. And the eyes will say "thank you!" If you ever give up the habit of reading while you are moving.
Do not look at the passengers, do not lean on them with your whole body.
Entering the transport, you need to remove rucksacks and bags-backpacks, so as not to hurt (sometimes even stain) people.
If it's difficult for you to keep a cake or flowers, when you are standing up, you can politely ask the seated to hold them.
Being in the salon, you should not laugh out loud and talk, discuss your problems, argue in vain with your friends. Especially it is not permissible to offend people who made a remark to you.
Parents should ensure that children do not soak up the clothes surrounding and the seat.
Do not take room for passengers with luggage or packages, larger things are better not transported during rush hours. And cumbersome sharp objects (for example, skis) are transported well packaged.
The owners of animals: cats, birds, small rodents preferably transported in special cells; dogs - always in a muzzle.
It is necessary to prepare for the exit in advance (especially if there are a lot of passengers). Ask the people in front: "Are you going out at the next stop?" Do not push people away silently making their way, but, apologizing, ask permission to pass you.
^ If a woman (a girl) rides with a man (a young man), then he goes first to the exit and goes out first, helping to get off the companion.
Aunt Pig-Passenger
Lesson 21.
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HOW TO ENTER MYSELF IN THE METRO.
Calmly and gently enter the escalator, trying not to push people going ahead.
If you are an elderly person or an invalid, try to help him at the entrance to the escalator or into the car.
Do not run on the escalator.
On the escalator, you should stand on the right side.
Do not lean against the handrails of the escalator and the doors of the carriages of electric trains.
Go into the lobby of the subway and leave it, hold the door.
Aunt Pig is a subway worker.
Lesson 22.
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IN THE MUSEUM AND THE PICTURE GALLERY.
Do not bother other visitors - do not speak loudly; do not shuffle your feet on the floor; Cough, get out of the hall; do not block the exhibits.
Do not harm the exhibits themselves - do not touch them with your hands, no matter how curious it was; do not touch the windows of the windows either.
Opening day - this is the grand opening of the exhibition. And although the atmosphere is relaxed, loud laughter, fuss, extraneous conversations are unacceptable.
If the artist - the culprit of the celebration - is familiar to you, be sure to come and express all the impression of the exhibition. Or just thank and wish success.
Aunt Pig-art critic
Lesson 23.
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SNOWLEDGE THE KITCHEN EGG ...
Egg hard boiled.
It is usually served in a cold form, already peeled and cut in half or finely chopped. He is eaten with a knife and fork. If a steep egg is served in the shell, that is, it can be as convenient as you are (especially if there is no additional crockery, where to put shells).
Eggs soft-boiled (as in a bag) are served in a hot kind in special glasses-holders, located on a saucer. The top of the egg should be cut with a teaspoonful and, picking up the same spoon, put on a saucer. If at you it did not turn out, nothing terrible: accurately take off your fingers off the parts of the shell and put them on the saucer. Now, with a teaspoon, scoop out the semi-liquid egg.
Fried egg.
You will need: a fork, a knife and a teaspoon with a pointed end. To the left of the plate is a fork, to the right - a knife (closer to the plate) and a spoon (outside).
1) With the tip of the spoon, carefully pierce the yolk on the side, closer to the squirrel, so that the liquid yolk will flow into the spoon.
2) Having eaten the contents of a spoon, scoop out the remainder of the yolk and eat it too.
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If the fried eggs consisted of several eggs, repeat the paragraphs. 1-2.
3) Leave the spoon on the far edge of the plate.
4) The protein is folded in half with a knife and fork (because the thin layer does not cling to the fork properly).
5) Cut a small piece of protein with a knife and send it to the mouth with a fork.
Scrambled eggs (egg gruel).
As a small-cut dish or souffle is eaten with a fork and a dull knife.
Thick protein egg omelet (egg souffle).
Eat with a fork or dessert spoon.
Omelet.
Eat with a fork and knife.
And if you, my friend, want to cook something from this, then you will come in handy advice Povareshkin "Dishes from eggs."
Great gourmet Aunt Spin.
Lesson 24.
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IN THEATER AND CONCERT HALL.
A visit to a theater or a concert can be considered a way out. Therefore, I advise you not just to dress, but to dress up and take your shoes with you.
To come to the theater or to a concert must be done early, so that there is time and put oneself in order, and take a walk in the foyer.
To their place pass the face to the seated. If you accidentally hit someone, be sure to apologize.
During the performance, do not even talk in a whisper and do not look for the accidentally dropped thing - it will not go anywhere until the break.
At a concert, do not sing along to the performer, if he does not specifically ask for it - nevertheless people came to hear not your singing :-).
At musical concerts, do not rush to applaud if you do not know the music very well: a pause in performance may mean not an end of performance, but a break between parts.
Flowers brought to the actors, in advance, free of wrapping paper (this does not apply to beautiful special packaging). By the way, flowers can be transferred, for example, through the administrator - he is always in the hall. But it is necessary to agree on this before the beginning of the concert or during the break.
Aunt Swine
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Lesson 27.
^ FLOWERS IN GIFT.
If you know what flowers your friends or relatives have favorite, then do not hesitate and give it to them.
The child is appropriate to give a small bouquet (violets, forget-me-nots, daisies, mimosas ...), tied with a bright ribbon. You can give a tulip. They say he reveals himself to the laughter of a child.
Mom a good gift will be roses or carnations, grandmother - flowers of gentle tones: lilies, chrysanthemums ... Give your papa and grandfather red carnations.
The elder sister can be presented with unblown pink or red roses. The elder brother will be given a good gift by dark roses.
Traditionally, in a gift bouquet, there must be an odd number of colors: 3, 5, 7 ... If you give one flower, pay attention: it should not be fragile and not small.
Flowers are presented, having released them from paper beforehand. And if the flowers are in a smart gift wrapper, then they do not remove it.
The bouquet is carried along the street and presented with stems down.
A good option - a room flower in a beautiful pot. But it is better to know in advance the tastes and preferences of the person you want to give a gift to.
Gifted flowers immediately put in the water in the room where they receive guests.
Lesson 28.
HOW DO YOU EAT FRUITS.
A PINEAPPLE. Serve chopped slices with skin. Eat with a dessert fork and knife, carving triangles.
Arbuz and Melon. Serve them in chunks. Flesh is eaten with a teaspoon or with a dessert fork and knife.
ORANGE. It is very difficult to eat at the table.
The first way: cut the orange into circles; holding a circle in his hand and ripping the ring of peel, eat out the flesh.
The second way: completely clean the orange from the crust and divide into segments that can be taken by hand.
BANANA. Peeled, the flesh is eaten with a tea or dessert spoon or a dessert fork.
GRAPES. Break off with a bunch, put on your plate and eat one berry.
CHERRY. Serve with petioles, holding on to which berries are eaten. At the same time, the bone is spit on a dessert spoon, bringing it close to the lips. Then put a bone on the edge of the saucer.
GRAPEFRUIT. Serve cut across. Edible middle part is cleaned with a knife from the peel and sprinkled with powdered sugar. Eat a dessert spoon.
THE EARTHQUAKE. If served with sepals, then eat, holding on the stalk and dipping into powdered sugar.
If the berry is served without sepals, then sprinkle it with sugar powder and eat with a teaspoonful.
LEMON. Slice it into slices. Take a special little fork and put in a cup of tea with a ml of coffee. Spoon squeezed out the juice, the remains of the lemon are removed and put on the edge of the saucer.
APPLES. Cut into 4 parts using a knife and fork. Lobules eat with their hands.
PEAR. Cut into 4 parts, like an apple, but eat with a fork and knife.
MANDARIN. Peeled and divided into lobes, which are taken with hands.
PEACH and DRAIN. Cut in half, remove with a knife and fork bone.
APRICOT. Eat either as peaches or as cherries.
Aunt Sweet, adoring fruit
| Lesson 31. ^ ETIQUETTE FOR CARAPUSES THE RULES OF BEHAVIOR AFTER THE TABLE poemsIrina Goryunova Accurately eat bread - Do not fool around in a chair, The soup should be eaten gently, Drink gulls without spilling! What a rumbling? What fell? Do not feed the cat, Wipe your mouth with a napkin Spoon the jelly and gruel, With a fork you can take a potato, The handle can take a pie, And say thank you to everyone, |
Aunt Swine
| Lesson 32. ^ ETIQUETTE FOR CARAPUSES AT GUESTS poemsIrina Goryunova First you agree, We dress smartly, You dressed, combed ... Do not go without a gift, If you are not invited, Do not forget to take off your shoes, Do not shawl and do not bite, Do not break tables and furniture, Be educated and humble, Do not kick your cat They praised the owners, the house, You got your shoes, took a jacket ... |
Aunt Swine
| Lesson 33. ^ ETIQUETTE FOR CARAPUSES IN TRANSPORT poemsIrina Goryunova Give in to the old women a place, Do not shout that you sit down to dream - Stay calm and hold on, There is nothing to litter you do not need - Do not drop the wrapper on the floor, Do not kick others with your feet Do not sing loudly, |
Cultural aunt Spryka
