Of course, any guy is pleased to understand that a certain girl is in love with him, and especially if these feelings turn out to be reciprocal. However, not always the representatives of the fair sex decide to openly confess in love, so the young man has only one thing - to understand it himself, paying attention to direct or indirect signs. 1. Idealizing the object of love.  Surely, many heard from women's lips: "Before, he was not like that." Most often, this happens when the offended side is disappointed in the act of the lover or begins to notice his "real face". So what's the matter really - was he really different from the other, or did the girl just present him to others? In most cases, it is the second option. At the initial stage of dating or a relationship, a girl can not thoroughly know her lover, so many "gaps" that she has not yet had time to open, she fills, using her own imagination. Of course, a girl in love will not think badly of a guy who is in love, therefore, as a rule, complements his portrait with positive strokes. For the sake of justice, it is necessary to recognize that such a trait is peculiar not only to representatives of the beautiful half of mankind, but also to many men - too, "paint" in his head an image and impose it on a girl who, to put it mildly, is far from her. 2. Dissipation.  The girl in love is often "in the clouds". She understands this itself and usually it is clearly visible to others from the outside. It is scattered everywhere - at school, at work, at home, in conversations with friends. Why is this happening? The answer is obvious - her thoughts are focused primarily on the object of love. 3. Shine in the eyes.  Probably, you have repeatedly heard that a girl in love "light up" your eyes. It can be compared with a child who received a long-awaited gift, and now is absolutely delighted with him. 4. High spirits or frequent mood changes.  Enamored people, and, of course, girls in particular, are amenable to frequent changes of mood. First of all, the position of the girl's spirit depends on the stage at which her relationship with her lover is at present, and how he managed to prove himself in the last time. If a young person shows interest in her, communicating with him actively, he wants to meet, makes compliments, initiates an interesting joint pastime, gives flowers or confesses love, then, probably, a girl in love will simply "shine with happiness." If the same situation does not work out the way she would like - the guy seldom writes or calls, there is not a word about a meeting in the near future, little attention is paid to him, he is interested in another person, he avoids communication and the like - then, of course, this has a negative effect on astroenii. The girl becomes sad and irritable. At the same time it is necessary to recognize that, with the slightest sign of attention from the object of sympathy, it will again "shine", instantly forgetting about former sorrows. 5. Changes in appearance.  Of course, in love, any representative of the fair sex wants this feeling to be mutual. She wants to please a man who is attracted to her sympathy, and for this she often goes to experiments with the appearance. It can be a radical change of image or only a small change in appearance. By the way, if she is a blonde, but finds out that the guy used to meet only with brunettes and is absolutely neutral about blonde people, the blond beauty is fully capable of taking a decisive step and repainting her hair in a dark color. She may not even be hampered by the fact that her blond hair objectively goes to her more, and she knew about it beforehand. In trying to attract a person you like, women are not capable of such madness, hoping that in the end they will still play into their hands. 6. Awakening of femininity. Undoubtedly, a person in love wants to look feminine and attractive to the object of his dreams. If before she was not particularly fond of wearing dresses, skirts, heels, tight things, now the situation is changing in the opposite direction. Knowing that her chosen one can see her, the girl will not allow any oversight in appearance, and she will think through her image to the smallest detail, even if it is a question of one casual meeting in the corridor of the institute (if, for example, a classmate is being talked about). The girl tries to represent advantageously the most advantageous parties, even if earlier paid little attention to them. Also now, in the presence of the young man she liked, she carefully watches her speech, her bearing, and so on.

She tries to pleaseIf a girl is in love with someone, then she wants to like this person, and this is quite obvious! How does it burn look like? In a conversation with a guy who is interested in her, she tries to show herself on the most positive side. Previously, she tries to understand which girls in principle like this young man, and in the future does everything possible to get a little closer to this image. If she becomes aware that the guy broke up with the previous lover because of her betrayal, she will try to make it clear that for herself, such behavior is not done in the proper way, and fidelity in relationships plays an essential or even primary role. The most interesting is that this can be completely different, but since its goal is to cause obvious sympathy, of course, it does not admit its shortcomings or will try to justify them, at least at the initial stage of communication. She laughs at his jokesA girl in love, of course, wants the object of sympathy to be comfortable when communicating with him. She listens attentively to all his stories, even if they are slightly boring, and laughs at his "witticisms," even if he has already heard them once before. In general, she tries to show the guy in every possible way that she is delighted with communicating with her. Of course, any young man will be pleased with this sensation, and he, most likely, afterwards he will strive to experience it again with this girl. Hints on relationshipsShe tries to understand how he relates to potential relationships with her, and can go in from afar: "Do you like girls like me?", "Do you think I'm coming for a serious relationship" and the like. Some girls even get courage to ask the young man if he can present them together. But this does not happen very often, because the person in love, of course, is afraid to hear a negative answer. She can also take an active interest in your former novels, find out what you accept in a relationship, and what you absolutely do not fit.

How to understand that a girl is in love with you

Is interested in your personalityShe is actively and sincerely interested in your personality. She wants to know what you do at work, whether you like studying, what you wanted to be in childhood, what bands you like, what films made an indelible impression, what your eating habits are, how you like to spend your free time, what features you have repel in other people and the like. Needless to say, if a girl is really in love, then, of course, she wants to know about the object of her sympathy really everything. And this interest is sincere, and is not dictated by the usual desire to support the conversation. Trying to prove himself on the winning sideShe is not only interested in you, but also on occasion, do not miss the chance to tell us something interesting about yourself. This has a completely understandable explanation - she wants to impress you. it can be about some achievements in sports, a story about a weekend, an opinion on a recently read book, and so on. For a loved one, she wants to look like a "dream girl", so it is important for her to create a "correct" opinion about her in your thoughts. Sometimes, the information can be embellished, but, of course, it is not necessary to look for anything in all the trick - the girl can quite speak about herself the pure truth. I am glad to any signs of attentionShe likes it when you show any signs of attention towards her, and you understand that. If you write a message to her in the VC, she quickly reacts to it trying to give an interesting and detailed answer to your message. If you start a conversation with her in "real" life, then she happily answers your initiative and so on. True, in the latter case, it is necessary to make an important clarification - not all girls respond equally to attention signs in the initial stages of communication. Most often, two patterns of behavior can be traced: she is either very pleased with your initiative, pleasant words, surprises, and the like, or she is so embarrassed that she finds it difficult to find the right words for excitement.

How to check if a girl loves you, if she hides it

Awaken jealousy in herIf you can not fully determine the attitude of the girl to you, it makes sense to awaken in her a sense of jealousy, but you need to do this carefully and know the measure if you want to continue to build relationships with this person. That is, it will be an exhaustive search, if "rumors" reach her that you spent a stormy night with a new acquaintance. How to "properly" cause jealousy? In conversations with a girl, mention a colleague or a classmate, telling her something positive, admiring her some kind of quality or deed. If the interlocutor starts to get dark and shut up in herself, then your dithyrambs, for sure, her hurt and it's no accident. In the case when communication occurs predominantly in VC, ask your friend (preferably, that it looks spectacular) to throw you "on the wall" a few songs with ambiguous overtones. If in the future in communication with the girl you "check", the changes will begin, then, probably you really are not indifferent to her. It can begin to show you an increased interest, be actively interested in the format of your relationship with a potential rival, or show offense, without necessarily pointing out the essence of it. Ask a direct questionAsk her directly about feelings. Even if she does not admit to you in love, by her reaction you will understand what she really feels for you. It is not difficult to understand this, if she is embarrassed and the question posed clearly will cause her a mixed reaction, and not surprise, then, most likely, you are not mistaken in your assumptions. Whatever it was, before trying to determine what the girl is experiencing to you, answer yourself why you want to know this. Note that many girls hide their feelings until the last. they are afraid that they will be non-reciprocal. If you sincerely like it or you are even in love with it, and would like to be together, then perhaps you should not wait until it makes a declaration of love first. Since you began to suspect that she is in love, then, probably, so it is, so in this case you should show determination and the first to let the girl know that she cares for you. Of course, after your recognition it will be much easier to open up in response.

How to understand if you really need a girl

If you really need a girl, then, most likely, you can understand this by several obvious signs. So, some of them. She tries to take care of youShe tries in every way to show concern for you. How is this manifested? It is important for her whether you are warmly dressed, whether you had time to have breakfast and the like. She herself tries to treat you with some goodies, and it often turns out that they were made by her own hand. She worries about youShe is not indifferent to your problems. If she knows for sure that you have had some troubles, she tries to help in any way, and does not postpone communication with you "until better times." She remains near in all circumstancesEven if you are aground now, you have problems with the law, colleagues against you, and now in your life there has come a "black streak", for a girl in love this is not an excuse for "going into the sunset". On the contrary, she will in every possible way try to cheer you up, give any support, give the necessary advice. Girls and their feelings are really tested "for strength" in hard times. She is ready to forgive you for oversightEven if you have not behaved in the best way towards her recently, she does not abandon you, and if she tries to leave, you can easily return it. This is due to the fact that a loving girl will better tolerate an inappropriate attitude towards herself than lose the object of her love. But there is an important remark: if you continue in this spirit, then, soon there will be nothing left of her love, and, probably, you will regret that you did not appreciate the person who really had roads. Think about why you are offending this girl. If she is indifferent to you, then will not it be more worthy to let her go and let her forget about these relationships? If you love her and your mistakes happen "by yourself", then seriously take care of yourself, and do not allow this, because relationships can be broken by your own hands. She is not looking for benefits in your relationshipEven if you do not have the money and the opportunity to invite her on a date, the girl in love does not bother. For her, it is not the material manifestation of your sympathy that is important, but only your presence in her life. She does not wait for expensive gifts, bouquets and other things - it is just important for her that you are together. By the way, such girls become a rarity, so if you meet her, then we can say that you really were lucky.

A girl has fallen in love with me, what to do

Depends on what you have to do with this girl. If you, too, are in love with her, then, of course, there's nothing to think about - show her this. Mutual love is not such a frequent phenomenon, and you were lucky if it happened in your life. There may be a more delicate situation - a girl in love with you, but you do not feel that you are ready to reciprocate her. With this development of events, it is important for you to be as correct as possible and not to offend the feelings of a person in love with you. If you understand that with words you can hardly convince her that you are not a couple, then try to show yourself from a not very profitable side. Of course, you should not offend her in the least. If after that the girl remains close, then this is an occasion to reflect - maybe you should pay more attention to it?

It so happened that the girl is traditionally prescribed a quiet, passive model of behavior. Previously, anyone was condemned and said about their feelings directly.

Now the girls are not so shy, they are not afraid of self-expression and leadership, but the majority, following the tradition, try to seem modest. This is not bad, since it is modest behavior that often attracts us even more than an outrageous one. But in this situation there is a well-founded question: how to understand that a girl loves you?

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There are moments that make it clear that sympathy does take place. But love is a deeper and more complicated thing, one language of the body and words can not be dispensed with. How to understand if you love a girl, if not by her actions?

1. You are for her in priority. A clever girl will by no means sacrifice herself for someone, but in the list of her plans you occupy some of the first positions. The girl is more interesting to spend time with you than to walk with friends or go shopping.
2. She listens to you. And hears. If a girl is ready to understand your position in life, sympathizes with your failures and rejoices in successes, then she surely loves you. Who needs the problems of an unloved person?
3. If suddenly there is some kind of force majeure, it is ready to help you. Of course, not to take on the whole problem, but to help in exactly what prevents you from coping on your own.
4. She does not expect an answer from you. This is not about selflessness, but about the desire to give love. She loves only because she loves. Not to receive love in return. Just loves.
5. She's not jealous of you. It seems difficult to understand. "Jealousy is the proof of love" is an extremely infantile statement. If a girl is jealous of you, then she either does not like herself, or does not trust you, or all together.
6. The girl trusts you. Any healthy relationship is built on trust, and it is very difficult to deserve and easy to lose.
7. The girl respects you and your boundaries. If she loves you, she will not demand from you an eternal company, gifts, attention, rejection of hobbies and friends. And in general, nothing will be required. A loving girl will give you complete freedom, because she can understand that to solicit anything is an element of psychological violence. If he likes, then he will not be raped.

That's how to understand that the girl loves for real. Not by the number of meetings that she appoints to you, not according to the number of gifts, not according to the taste of the meat pie and not at the depth of the decollete. Internet communication, too, can hardly be a guide. How to understand that a girl loves you, by correspondence? Online communication - this is just a set of templates, devoid of true emotionality. Inside is love, not outside.

Perhaps she is using you?

Everyone has their own ways to survive and take their place under the sun. Situations are all sorts, so do not treat this with condemnation, you can understand everyone. But no one will be pleased with the realization that they meet with him because of self-interest. How to understand if a girl loves you or uses you?

1. If it depends on you financially, this is an occasion to reflect. It's easy to understand that cases of disinterested love of a provincial and a successful businessman are real, but they are, to put it mildly, not enough.
2. If you are her boss, and the girl makes it clear that she wants promotion and makes unambiguous hints, the likelihood that she will use you is extremely high.
3. The girl just manipulates you, if she refuses to you in the vicinity, when you do not indulge her whims. I did not buy a fur coat, I did not give the phone, I did not take it to Nice - I will not have sex.
4. There is a high probability that you are using a young lady if she addresses you only when she needs something.

Does it happen that a girl hides her feelings?

Oh yes, there are legends about women's secrecy. Negative old experience can undermine the trust of the girl as a man, and in general to a romantic and intimate relationship, because she is not in a hurry to open her heart first.

It is also worth noting that since childhood, remembering Tatyana Larin, the girls are told that if they start to talk about their feelings for the man, then they will suffer a sad fate: they will lose all interest and try to get rid of them as soon as possible. Since many girls are not deprived of the fear of loneliness, they try to be good for everyone not to be abandoned. Hence the following obsolete rules of "decency", which only suppress what is inside.

How to understand that a girl loves you, but hides her feelings? Externally, the young lady can behave quite indifferently or emphatically politely, but this does not mean that she does not feel anything to you. Try to watch her. Some gestures, characteristic features of behavior, the phrases will necessarily give her out, if, of course, the girl has not passed many years of training in the school of self-control.

How to find out about her real feelings: test

In how to find out if a girl loves you, the test as such will not help. Before you start testing a young lady, you should understand that few people like experiments on themselves.

You can, of course, get to the hospital and mark the time for which she will run to your room, but it's better to stop playing children's games and test normally. But yourself. His attentiveness and observation.

So, you really like the girl, if:

• When talking, she looks at your face. It is not necessary, that directly in eyes, to many people it is difficult enough. The main thing is that not through you, not in your purse, not into the phone and not to your fingernails.
• When she listens to you, her lips are slightly ajar. In fact, it is.
• When communicating in a fun company, when someone jokes, she looks at you, at your reaction. The girl subconsciously will be guided by the reaction of the guy of interest to her
• She sincerely smiles at you and laughs at your jokes. This is moderately wide smile, in which almost all the facial muscles are involved: this is indicated by the "crow's feet" near the eyes. Such a smile does not look rehearsed, it does not appear too quickly and does not disappear right after you turn away.
• She straightens her clothes, her hair while communicating. If she adjusts her hair, her hands go up, revealing the breast. This is a subconscious sign of demonstrating your sexuality.
• If during a conversation her hands are near the waist, this is almost a direct, but subconscious, hint of continued communication in a more intimate setting. So she accentuates your attention on your hips and genitals.

Signs that the ex-girlfriend still loves you

How do you know that a former girl loves you? After all, such situations are many, because of some strange circumstances, in which the feelings do not disappear anywhere.

You can understand that she loves you, if:

1. Communicates with you in the same way as before. Do not try to ignore or seduce anew, but calmly with you talking, supports dialogue. A wise, loving girl will not manipulate or make hysterics: she is not a capricious child.
2. Still coming to meet, if you need some help.
3. Do not spread rumors about you all. Any attempts to slander you in the eyes of common acquaintances are absent if she loves you.
4. Do not like hysterics because you found another girl, no scenes of jealousy. She is able to understand and accept the situation.
5. Does not hold you against you because you broke up / that you spent the best years of your life / that you are a rascal. Again, she is able to understand that the couple is involved in the relationship.

Before you understand that the girl still loves you, think about whether it is worth the second time to enter into this relationship without having worked through the mistakes of your previous attempt.

Still there is the easiest way of knowing how a girl loves you after parting: ask her. If you have parted peacefully, she will make it clear that feelings have remained.

How to fall in love with a girl?

You should understand that you will not be forced by force. Obsession and pressure of the young lady can not take, and if you take it, then for a little while. But you can increase the likelihood.

• Let me understand that she is interesting to you. These can be banal bouquets of flowers, an invitation to walk or discuss something.
• Look at her hobbies. It's difficult for a girl not to like a guy with whom she has a favorite common cause. Dancing, cinema, hand-to-hand combat - it does not matter. Try to understand and love her hobby.
• Help her. Actions. Bring it home if it's raining outside. Napoi tea, if it came from the cold.
• Spend time with her. Do not be afraid to invite her to places that interest you two, but do not overdo it. She must have enough time for herself, and the monotony gets boring. Try to understand her tastes and choose an event that both will like.
• Do not play with her in fits of ignoring, jealousy, indifference, etc. It's more like a child's manipulation than an adult male. Behave according to the situation.
• Give all kinds of stuff without any reason. The mere fact of receiving something free of charge has very much.

In the initial stages, gifts should not make the girl understand that she is being bribed. We need something good, spiritual. A book, a packet of red tea, jelly bears, a caliper, a piece of jadeite, a jigsaw. It's a matter of taste, how many people love.

How to understand that you do not like a girl?

She is polite, tidy, tactful. She smiles at you, talks to you and looks beautiful. Is it love? Is not a fact. How do you know if a girl loves you or not in appearance? No way. Just tentatively.

But if she really does not love you, you will see and understand. Her smile is more like automatic than real. Her conversations with you more resemble a secular conversation than the exchange of information between two interested people. Actually, everything. If she does not love you, her behavior is completely neutral, you can understand this.

And sometimes it happens that the young lady does not perceive a guy as an individual of the opposite sex. She can share many things with you, knowing that you will be able to understand and advise. Up to love failures. If the roles are arranged in such a way that you feel like a "girl-friend", then it is unlikely that she sees you as a potential partner. To some extent, she loves you, but clearly not in the context that you want.

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Conclusion

To catch the woman's love is possible with the help of her own observation, which concerns both body language, and behavioral, social moments. Especially sharpen this attention should be, if you think that a girl.

Loving girl is calm and friendly to her partner. She does not demand anything from him, but she is glad of any step to meet her. Do not forget that true love is quiet and invisible, but it lasts a lifetime.

At school and on the street, girls often behave discreetly. They can flirt and flirt with many guys. But how to understand that the girl loves you, and not just joking? The first signs of falling in love are very similar to simple jokes. And sometimes, we reject those who are in love with us, thinking that they are not serious. To avoid this, it is necessary to carefully analyze the situation.

How to understand that the girl is in love with you?

The first signs of feelings are:

• Devotion. It flirts and jokes only with you;
• Attempts to remain alone with you;
• Constant requests for help;
• Adjustment to your needs;
• Desire to help and sympathize.

The girl does not understand it, she lives your life. And this is immediately noticeable. Of course, this can be a banal friendship, but it is unlikely.

After all, if she just makes fun, then it will not make a difference to whom to pester: to you or to your neighbor on the desk. And especially to understand your interests or preferences to anything.

How to determine that the girl loves you?

It reacts sharply if you do not answer it by correspondence or live. At the same time she herself writes first. And he always talks to you for a long time, even if there is nothing to talk about.

She can also be jealous. She criticizes all the ladies from your environment and, as if by chance, singles out herself among them.

Still, she does not find herself a boyfriend. At the same time, a girl can say that she does not need anyone. Or she can jokingly say that she loves you (or something like that). And in such a joke there must be some truth.

She's in a good mood next to you. She smiles and rejoices without any reason. This is a sign of the production of the hormone endorphin, which is produced by all lovers.

Beats - it means love

Often in the 5th, 6th and 7th grade girls show attention with the help of aggression. Although, this applies to older ladies.

She can you:

1. To make fun of;
2. To touch;
3. To scold;
4. Trying to strike;
5. And even hate.

So, she tries to hide her hidden feelings, but at the same time be closer to you. And if someone tries to bring her to the surface, she will shout loudly, proving that it is not so. Thus, she will give herself out.

This type of manifestation of attention can be dangerous. If you find another girl, then the enamored person can spoil your life. Although with reciprocity problems are possible. After all, for her to show love through aggression - this is quite normal.

What to do with a girl in love?

Do not immediately offer her a relationship. Understand your feelings. If you do not see anything in common between you, you can stop communicating with her closely or explain everything.

If you do not mind meeting her, you can reciprocate. But it's not worth doing so, as if you already knew in advance that she loves you. Girls are keenly deceived and deceived. She may think that you are joking and offended. Hence, it is necessary to act accurately.

But before that, make sure that you are not mistaken. Communicate with her as friends. Try to analyze it. Start by accidentally giving signs of attention. If this will work, then it will be possible to go on to dates.

What girls can fall in love with you?

Do not harbor unnecessary hopes. The most beautiful (and most busty) girl is unlikely to be over you to dry. Usually, boys fall in love with girls from junior classes or ladies who are deprived of the attention of the opposite sex.

But the beauties are looking for those who match them. Therefore, if one of the popular girls at school with you on flirted, do not make yourself unnecessary plans. Such persons should be sought by you.

With proper concentration, to understand that the girl loves you at first sight. But it remains to be seen what to do with this further. Now in your hands the feelings of another person, with whom you should act carefully.